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How to order at a Thai made-to-order stall and get the plate you want

A made-to-order (tam sang) stall needs five things from you, in order, said in one go. The words to use, how to control the heat, and the mistakes that cost you.

First taste 4 min read October 16, 2026 Getting started with Thai food · lesson 1/3

What you will learn
  • A made-to-order stall needs five things: dish, meat, heat, add or leave out, and how it is served.
  • "Less hot" means something different at every stall. Start low the first time and add chili at the table.
  • For an allergy, say "allergic" (phae), not "I do not like it". Kitchens take the two very differently.

A ran ahan tam sang is a made-to-order stall: the cook makes one plate at a time, the way you ask for it. The board may list a few dozen dishes, but almost anything can be mixed and matched. That is the good part. The catch is that if you do not say enough, the cook has to guess, and you may end up with something far too hot or with an ingredient you cannot eat. This article covers what the stall needs to know, in what order, and the words that make it clear.

The examples use pad kra pao (holy basil stir-fry), one of the most ordered dishes in Thailand, but the same pattern works for chili-paste stir-fries, fried rice, stir-fried vegetables and nearly everything else at a made-to-order stall.

The five things the cook wants to know

Cooks at these stalls work fast and listen in a familiar order. Say it in this order and they will catch it all at once.

  1. Dish: what you want, e.g. pad kra pao, pad prik gaeng, khao pad (fried rice)
  2. Meat: moo sap (minced pork), moo chin (sliced pork), gai (chicken), neua (beef), goong (prawn), talay (mixed seafood), moo krob (crispy pork)
  3. Heat: mai phet (not hot), phet noi (less hot), phet glang (medium), or the stall’s normal
  4. Add or leave out: khai dao (fried egg), khai jiao (omelette), no vegetables, no MSG, and any allergy
  5. How served: rad khao (over rice) or gap khao (on its own), eat here or take away
What you sayExample1 Dishpad kra pao2 Meatmoo sap (minced pork)3 How hotphet noi (less hot)4 Add / leave outkhai dao, no peanuts5 How servedrad khao, eat hereSay it in one gokra pao moo sap, phet noi, khai dao, rad khao
Five things the cook wants to know, in this order, said in one go

The words you will use most

ThaiMeaning
rad khao (ราดข้าว)over rice, one plate
gap khao (กับข้าว)on its own plate, no rice; order rice separately
phiset (พิเศษ)bigger portion, costs more
khai dao / khai jiaofried egg with the yolk showing / Thai omelette
khai dao mai suk / sukrunny yolk / cooked through
phet noi / mai phetless chili / no chili
mai sai … (ไม่ใส่)leave out …, e.g. mai sai hom yai (no onion)
yaek nam (แยกน้ำ)for noodle soups or curries: broth in a separate bowl
sai glong / glap baanin a box / take away

Put it in one sentence: “kra pao moo sap, phet noi, khai dao, rad khao”. The cook has everything without asking you back.

Controlling the heat

Heat is where most orders go wrong, because every stall has its own scale. One place’s “medium” can be hotter than another’s “hot”. Three rules that work:

  • At a new place, start with less hot. Most stalls keep chili fish sauce (prik nam pla), dried chili flakes or chili vinegar on the table. You can always add heat; you cannot take it out.
  • Count the chilies where they pound fresh. At a som tam (papaya salad) stall you can say “prik med diao” (one chili) or “song med” (two), and the cook will count them in. That is clearer than “less hot”.
  • Know where the heat comes from. Pad kra pao gets its heat from fresh chilies pounded with garlic, which are easy to reduce. Curries and chili-paste stir-fries get it from a paste made in advance, which is harder to dial down.

Example: ordering for a table of three

Three friends: one loves heat, one handles a little, one is allergic to peanuts. You want to share several dishes.

OrderWhy
Pad kra pao moo chin, phet noi, gap khaoEveryone can eat it; the heat lover adds chili fish sauce
Tom jued tao hu moo sap (clear tofu and pork soup)A mild soup cools things down between hotter bites
Khai jiao moo sap (pork omelette)No heat, no peanuts, safe for everyone
Steamed rice × 3Dishes came gap khao, so rice is ordered separately

Then add one sentence: “One of us is allergic to peanuts (phae thua lisong), please tell us if a dish has peanuts.” Three dishes and three plates of rice; everyone eats, nobody gambles.

For allergies, say “allergic”

“Mai sai thua” (no peanuts) and “phae thua” (allergic to peanuts) sound close but land very differently. “No peanuts” may only mean no peanuts sprinkled on top. “Allergic” makes the cook more likely to think about sauces and equipment too, such as a wok or a mortar just used with peanuts.

Common hidden ingredients at these stalls are oyster sauce, soy sauce that contains wheat, fish sauce, and shrimp paste in curry pastes. The third article in this series covers them in detail. If your allergy is severe, talk to your doctor about eating out before you travel, and ask the stall every time.

Common mistakes

  • Ordering “the usual” at a new place. Every stall has its own recipe. Spell it out until they know you.
  • Forgetting rad khao or gap khao. A group ends up with one rice plate each and nothing easy to share.
  • Ordering in pieces. Dish, then the heat as an afterthought, then the egg. A busy cook may miss one. Line it up in your head and say it once.
  • Seasoning before tasting. The dish is already seasoned. Taste first, then add fish sauce or sugar.

Summary

A made-to-order stall gives you full control. Just say five things, dish, meat, heat, add or leave out, and how it is served, in that order and in one go. At a new place, start with less hot. And for anything you react to, always use the word “allergic”. The next article in this series looks at how Thai food tastes different from region to region.

FAQ

What does "phiset" (special) mean?

A bigger portion, usually more meat or more rice, at a higher price. Ask how much extra it is.

What is the difference between "rad khao" and "gap khao"?

Rad khao means the dish is spooned over rice on one plate, good for one person. Gap khao means the dish comes on its own plate without rice, for sharing; you then order steamed rice separately.

If I say "mai phet" (not hot), will it have no heat at all?

The cook leaves out the chili, but some dishes still carry heat from pepper or a curry paste made in advance, such as curries or chili-paste stir-fries. If you cannot handle any heat, choose a dish that is not built on chili.

Ingredients and heat vary by kitchen and recipe. If you have a food allergy, ask before you order, every time.